The Unspoken

Uncover what you carry. Discover what you share.

Join with Code

A facilitator-led group exercise

What we don't say shapes us more than what we do.

A guided anonymous reflection tool for people in or working towards a committed relationship. Each partner independently answers weighted questions about their inner emotional world; and the couple together receives an honest relationship insight report, three focused growth priorities, and a personalised curriculum built around their unique results, for a stronger and deeper connection.

Designed for both individual couples and group settings, the tool also generates collective insights across multiple couples, revealing predominant emotional patterns for each gender across the entire group, making it a powerful resource for facilitators, counsellors, retreat organisers, and faith communities.

How it works

  1. 1

    Create a session

    Choose whether the group is married or courting. You get a short code to share.

  2. 2

    Participants join confidentially

    They pick male or female and answer Yes or No. No names. No accounts.

  3. 3

    Scores roll up live

    Weighted by criticality. Men and women are scored separately on every category.

  4. 4

    AI builds the curriculum

    Predominant problem areas, three training needs, and full session content.

Start a new session

You'll get a 6-character code to project on screen or text to the group. Different questions are generated depending on whether participants are married or courting.

Free plan uses 8 curated standard questions (one per category). Upgrade to use the full bank or author your own.